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azuriteHappy Father's Day!
I don't think there are (too many?) fathers on my FL, but in case there are, or even for the girls who have dads out there, this is my wish from me to you/them! :)
Today for Dad's day, I actually spoke to my estranged and bald father (what, it's the truth!). Thankfully, he wasn't mean to me over the phone, but our discussion was about as warm and fluffy as stale bread. Not ice cold or anything, but more half-baked than anything else. He said he was going to be busy for the whole summer; I told him I knew when I was leaving to Japan; he said to keep him posted. That was pretty much it. I told him Happy Father's Day, but after he threw such a snit this past week over me calling him TWICE (to find out his address so I could send him a PRESENT), I decided not to bother with it at all. Knowing him, he would misinterpret the picture I selected for the travel mug I wanted to get for him anyway; an old one of me, him, and Michelle. I was only 1 year old or so, so I don't remember it, but it must have been before my parents divorced, if Michelle was at a Sweet family gathering. I looked very cute and small in the picture, and Dad was holding me and pointing at the camera for Michelle, who was grinning like a hyena.
...He did say something very nice about her on Passover during the blessings, but I don't want to think he's above insulting either me or my mother. Doing it via my sister would just make me hate him even more, so I won't jinx it. Dad doesn't even get me birthday presents or anything, so why the hell should I return the favor? Maybe if I'm feeling generous later in the month, I'll get it for him for his birthday on the 29th.
Maybe Cancers and Aries just can't get along?
Well, I don't believe wholeheartedly in astrology, even if it's been accurate for me on most occasions, but here's an explanation that may prove enlightening:
Aries - Cancer
Parent/Child Compatibility Reading (Me and my dad)
When an Aries child is born to a Cancer parent, it's a case of bipolar opposites. Aries is rash and brash, while Cancer is sensitive and quiet. Aries may overwhelm Cancer with a flurry of emotional outbursts, and the Cancer parent may wonder how they could have raised such an erratic child in their serene home.
Cancer lives an even-tempered life, but they are often amused by the outgoing and steadfast obsession of their offspring. Aries, on the other hand, may find their parent's Cancerian sensitivity and emotional depth appealing; it's a good balance for the typical Aries bluntness. At times, though, troubles may arise if Cancer's mood swings or Aries' aggression become hurtful. Both Signs must take time to listen to one another's needs and understand they're coming from different directions. Cancer is the Sign of home and hearth and provides Aries with a happy domestic life and emotional security. Cancer works behind the scenes while Aries rushes into battle. Aries needs to listen to their parent: the Crab is strongly instinctive, and their advice can help Aries avoid making silly mistakes and rash decisions caused by a lack of planning.
The best aspect of the Aries-Cancer family relationship is that once they realize they're on the same team, they can compliment one another's strengths and weaknesses. Aries is always out there getting attention, and Cancer is quietly supporting them behind the scenes. Both parent and child provide what the other is lacking.
Aries - Capricorn
Parent/Child Compatibility Reading (Me and my mother)
When an Aries child is born to a Capricorn parent, they must work hard to ensure that their strengths are geared toward the same purposes. They are the tortoise and hare of the Zodiac; they are inextricably linked and undoubtedly related, but they don't always realize it.
The Aries child is out there in the world, moving fast, risking it all. In response, the Capricorn plays a very stereotypical role of a finger-waving parent. They dislike risks and move at a slower pace, and they often accuse Aries of being fool hearty. Both relatives are sure to get where they're going, but they won't see eye to eye along the way. Capricorn is very unassuming and quiet, while Aries is more flashy. Both are stubborn, so when they're on the same team they need to have different and well-defined roles to ensure that they don't cross each other's boundaries. Their philosophies are very different: Aries is always looking for the shortcut, while Capricorn would rather do things the hard way if it ensures that the undertaking will be successful. But once they understand each other's style, their different methods help them to achieve together what they could not achieve alone.
The best aspect of the Aries-Capricorn family relationship is that they each constantly amuse and bewilder one another; Aries thinks their parent is old fashioned, and Capricorn often finds their child leaping before looking. Theirs is often a challenging family, but if they can learn from each other, it's worth the effort.
And just for shits and giggles:
Aries - Aquarius
Compatibility Reading (Me and my late sister, Michelle)
When Aries and Aquarius come together, the combination of Aquarian vision and Arian action tends to make them a highly creative pair. Their partnership is anything but static, and while it can be competitive it's never boring! This pair can be great friends; their Signs are two apart and this tends to make them compatible and able to communicate well. Both of them are idealistic and enthusiastic about life, and together they enjoy new and outlandish experiences. Both are attracted to anything new, and they love thrills; they may even take turns playing the show-off!
Many Aries-Aquarius relationships enjoy a feeling of mutual admiration. Aries admires the uniqueness, vision, and inventiveness characteristic of Aquarius . In turn, Aquarius admires the Arian energy and initiative -- Aquarians always have new ideas, but they don't always have the drive to carry them out the way Aries does. Both Signs enjoy their independence, but conflicts can arise if Aries seems too possessive or Aquarius seems too aloof or detached. Both partners need to learn that they view the world in different ways. Aries can be too involved for Aquarius' taste, and Aquarius in turn may be too unpredictable for their Aries partner. As long as both partners reassure each other that the relationship is important, things will be just fine!
Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars and Aquarius is ruled by the Planet Saturn, as well as Uranus. These three Planets form a sort of cycle that is indicative of the Aries-Aquarius relationship and their ability to come together to create new institutions. Uranus is the Planet of new ideas and creativity; it's from this Planet that Aquarius gets its great vision. Then Mars puts these ideas into practice and initiates action. Finally Saturn keeps the process going to completion, following up after Uranus' inspiration is exhausted and Mars' energy moves on to new things.
Aries is a Fire Sign and Aquarius is an Air Sign. Air fuels Fire and keeps it going; Aquarius can keep up with the action and energy of Aries and the Ram's tendency to start initiating new projects based on Aquarius' ideas. When they work together as a team, there are no limits to the possibilities! Aquarius is able to use intellect to inspire Aries' action-oriented lifestyle and feed them new ideas to put into practice -- Aquarius is very intellectually stimulating to Aries. Both Signs have wide-ranging interests, and Aries' desire to physically participate gives them great joy in implementing the ideas of the more mentally active Aquarius.
Aries is a Cardinal Sign and Aquarius is a Fixed Sign. Aries gives Aquarius the confidence to charge ahead and take action, rather than just sitting in the laboratory concocting new ideas. Aquarius can help Aries stabilize and complete projects rather than jumping into new plans without completing the old ones. They both respect and admire each other, and when they can understand that no one has to be in charge, they can accomplish a lot together.
The best aspect of the Aries-Aquarius relationship is their ability to achieve a great deal when they work together. Cardinal Fire and Fixed Air cover all the bases: these partners can come up with an idea, plan how to implement it, get it going, and stick with it to make it succeed. This formula for success makes theirs a relationship of vision as well as practice.
(Heh, and Michelle always said she was so jealous of my artistic skills... this coming from a film major and incredible musician and artist, who went to Academy of Art college!)
Aries - Scorpio
Compatibility Reading (Me and Scott)
When Aries and Scorpio come together, it can be the kind of relationship where the two partners wonder how they ever managed apart. Both partners in this relationship love power, and if they learn to work together instead of against each other they can achieve anything they want. Scorpio is more focused and more determined than Aries, while Aries gets things started the way both partners want. Even though Aries can be fiercely loyal, Scorpio has a deeper and more complex devotion to the partnership.
This can be a very goal-oriented relationship. It tends to be highly passionate and often argumentative, because both partners have jealous tendencies. Scorpio tends to be more patient, but is also more possessive than Aries. But despite their differences, both partners love risk and taking chances; this is not a boring relationship! Aries and Scorpio can have lots of adventures together. At times they can have difficulty understanding each other, because Aries is an extrovert, up front and open, while Scorpio is more introverted with their feelings. Both partners need to meet on neutral ground once in a while and work out a truce!
Aries and Scorpio are both ruled by the Planet Mars, and Scorpio is also ruled by Pluto. When two people with Mars' energy come together, it's like two players meeting on a battlefield: they're either allies or deadly enemies. Mars also represents passion, so Aries and Scorpio tend to have an exciting time together. Both meet challenge head-on, so it's normal for them to argue all the time -- making up is something to look forward to! Pluto adds an extra intensity to this dynamic.
Aries is a Fire Sign and Scorpio is a Water Sign. These two elements can be a great combination if they work together, using emotion and physical action to get things done. Scorpio is a strategist, and can help Aries slow down and learn how to plan battles before jumping into them. Aries teaches Scorpio to let go and move on when their efforts are thwarted. But Scorpio can be emotionally manipulative, too much Water dampening Aries' enthusiasm. Conversely, too much Fire can burn the Water away and drive Scorpio to seek revenge. Aries and Scorpio must plan and work together instead of separately to maintain their balance.
Aries is a Cardinal Sign and Scorpio is a Fixed Sign. Aries gives Scorpio the initiative to do things just for the experience, rather than always having an agenda in mind. Scorpio can help Aries stabilize and finish things rather than jumping into new projects without completing the old ones. But they are both loyal and devoted to each other, and when they can understand that they can both be the boss -- Aries as the initiator and Scorpio as the emotional leader -- they can accomplish a great deal together.
The best aspect of the Aries-Scorpio relationship is the power of their combined forces. They can accomplish a lot, particularly when they believe in the same cause. They are both winners and they won't give up, making theirs a relationship that never settles for second best.
After everything I've ever said about my mom, dad, Michelle, or Scott, do you think these are at all accurate? I think everything has a grain of truth into it, and much like my tarot readings, it can be interpreted many different ways based on my own personal knowledge and experience.
Anyway, back to Dad's Day... I intended to treat Grandpa and Baba out to dinner at Olive Garden, but even after we got there (we knew there'd be a wait; Grandpa and I went to the mall. I had to pick up some more Proactiv and some soaps from Bath & Bodyworks. But apparently they'd paged Baba while she was waiting, and since we weren't there, we all had to wait an extra 10 minutes), they refused to let me pay! I mean, it was nice, considering I'd just dropped $82 at the mall for my own personal needs, but geez! It kind of ruins the point of father's day when the father pays for the food! :( Oh well, we all enjoyed ourselves- we literally stuffed ourselves with salad, bread sticks, pasta, and raspberry cheesecake. I had cheese ravioli and coke, Baba had unlimited Minestrone soup and salad, and Grandpa had apricot-braised chicken with seasonal veggies.
Back to the mall though-- bad experience with the guy at the kiosk cart. Long story short, he accused me (none-too-subtly, either) of cutting in line! Jerk. I came there knowing exactly what I wanted. I didn't have questions to ask, large bills that may have been counterfeit, or anything of the sort. He was such a twat, I wish I could report him somehow. But I settled for complaining on![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-community.gif)
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I've been rewatching Sailor Moon (Season 1) for alt.fan.sailor-moon (AFSM) and having a grand time learning all these things I never knew, and looking at the series in a new light. While SMR is my favorite season to write fic for, and SMS is my favorite season to watch, I've been getting plotbunnied by the same insane Usagi x Seiya idea I've had for a while, something I intended to write forsm_monthly (even though I don't do well with deadlines for fic). The more of SM I watch, the more it pesters me, even if the season is totally wrong! So I'm looking forward to watching SMR and getting into it for real.
Oh, and for the record, see my icon? Yeah, well, I've been commissioned (sort of) to do one like that with the Yu-Gi-Oh cast.
Sailor Moon - ???
Sailor Mercury - Rebecca
Sailor Mars - Mokuba
Sailor Jupiter - Shizuka
Sailor Venus - Mai
Chibiusa/Chibimoon - Yugi
Black Lady - Yami no Yuugi
Sailor Uranus - Jounouchi
Sailor Neptune - ???
Sailor Pluto - Isis
Sailor Saturn - Anzu
Tuxedo Mask - Seto
Anyone got any suggestions for pictures to manip, or rearrangements of this here cast? :D
I don't think there are (too many?) fathers on my FL, but in case there are, or even for the girls who have dads out there, this is my wish from me to you/them! :)
Today for Dad's day, I actually spoke to my estranged and bald father (what, it's the truth!). Thankfully, he wasn't mean to me over the phone, but our discussion was about as warm and fluffy as stale bread. Not ice cold or anything, but more half-baked than anything else. He said he was going to be busy for the whole summer; I told him I knew when I was leaving to Japan; he said to keep him posted. That was pretty much it. I told him Happy Father's Day, but after he threw such a snit this past week over me calling him TWICE (to find out his address so I could send him a PRESENT), I decided not to bother with it at all. Knowing him, he would misinterpret the picture I selected for the travel mug I wanted to get for him anyway; an old one of me, him, and Michelle. I was only 1 year old or so, so I don't remember it, but it must have been before my parents divorced, if Michelle was at a Sweet family gathering. I looked very cute and small in the picture, and Dad was holding me and pointing at the camera for Michelle, who was grinning like a hyena.
...He did say something very nice about her on Passover during the blessings, but I don't want to think he's above insulting either me or my mother. Doing it via my sister would just make me hate him even more, so I won't jinx it. Dad doesn't even get me birthday presents or anything, so why the hell should I return the favor? Maybe if I'm feeling generous later in the month, I'll get it for him for his birthday on the 29th.
Maybe Cancers and Aries just can't get along?
Well, I don't believe wholeheartedly in astrology, even if it's been accurate for me on most occasions, but here's an explanation that may prove enlightening:
Aries - Cancer
Parent/Child Compatibility Reading (Me and my dad)
When an Aries child is born to a Cancer parent, it's a case of bipolar opposites. Aries is rash and brash, while Cancer is sensitive and quiet. Aries may overwhelm Cancer with a flurry of emotional outbursts, and the Cancer parent may wonder how they could have raised such an erratic child in their serene home.
Cancer lives an even-tempered life, but they are often amused by the outgoing and steadfast obsession of their offspring. Aries, on the other hand, may find their parent's Cancerian sensitivity and emotional depth appealing; it's a good balance for the typical Aries bluntness. At times, though, troubles may arise if Cancer's mood swings or Aries' aggression become hurtful. Both Signs must take time to listen to one another's needs and understand they're coming from different directions. Cancer is the Sign of home and hearth and provides Aries with a happy domestic life and emotional security. Cancer works behind the scenes while Aries rushes into battle. Aries needs to listen to their parent: the Crab is strongly instinctive, and their advice can help Aries avoid making silly mistakes and rash decisions caused by a lack of planning.
The best aspect of the Aries-Cancer family relationship is that once they realize they're on the same team, they can compliment one another's strengths and weaknesses. Aries is always out there getting attention, and Cancer is quietly supporting them behind the scenes. Both parent and child provide what the other is lacking.
Aries - Capricorn
Parent/Child Compatibility Reading (Me and my mother)
When an Aries child is born to a Capricorn parent, they must work hard to ensure that their strengths are geared toward the same purposes. They are the tortoise and hare of the Zodiac; they are inextricably linked and undoubtedly related, but they don't always realize it.
The Aries child is out there in the world, moving fast, risking it all. In response, the Capricorn plays a very stereotypical role of a finger-waving parent. They dislike risks and move at a slower pace, and they often accuse Aries of being fool hearty. Both relatives are sure to get where they're going, but they won't see eye to eye along the way. Capricorn is very unassuming and quiet, while Aries is more flashy. Both are stubborn, so when they're on the same team they need to have different and well-defined roles to ensure that they don't cross each other's boundaries. Their philosophies are very different: Aries is always looking for the shortcut, while Capricorn would rather do things the hard way if it ensures that the undertaking will be successful. But once they understand each other's style, their different methods help them to achieve together what they could not achieve alone.
The best aspect of the Aries-Capricorn family relationship is that they each constantly amuse and bewilder one another; Aries thinks their parent is old fashioned, and Capricorn often finds their child leaping before looking. Theirs is often a challenging family, but if they can learn from each other, it's worth the effort.
And just for shits and giggles:
Aries - Aquarius
Compatibility Reading (Me and my late sister, Michelle)
When Aries and Aquarius come together, the combination of Aquarian vision and Arian action tends to make them a highly creative pair. Their partnership is anything but static, and while it can be competitive it's never boring! This pair can be great friends; their Signs are two apart and this tends to make them compatible and able to communicate well. Both of them are idealistic and enthusiastic about life, and together they enjoy new and outlandish experiences. Both are attracted to anything new, and they love thrills; they may even take turns playing the show-off!
Many Aries-Aquarius relationships enjoy a feeling of mutual admiration. Aries admires the uniqueness, vision, and inventiveness characteristic of Aquarius . In turn, Aquarius admires the Arian energy and initiative -- Aquarians always have new ideas, but they don't always have the drive to carry them out the way Aries does. Both Signs enjoy their independence, but conflicts can arise if Aries seems too possessive or Aquarius seems too aloof or detached. Both partners need to learn that they view the world in different ways. Aries can be too involved for Aquarius' taste, and Aquarius in turn may be too unpredictable for their Aries partner. As long as both partners reassure each other that the relationship is important, things will be just fine!
Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars and Aquarius is ruled by the Planet Saturn, as well as Uranus. These three Planets form a sort of cycle that is indicative of the Aries-Aquarius relationship and their ability to come together to create new institutions. Uranus is the Planet of new ideas and creativity; it's from this Planet that Aquarius gets its great vision. Then Mars puts these ideas into practice and initiates action. Finally Saturn keeps the process going to completion, following up after Uranus' inspiration is exhausted and Mars' energy moves on to new things.
Aries is a Fire Sign and Aquarius is an Air Sign. Air fuels Fire and keeps it going; Aquarius can keep up with the action and energy of Aries and the Ram's tendency to start initiating new projects based on Aquarius' ideas. When they work together as a team, there are no limits to the possibilities! Aquarius is able to use intellect to inspire Aries' action-oriented lifestyle and feed them new ideas to put into practice -- Aquarius is very intellectually stimulating to Aries. Both Signs have wide-ranging interests, and Aries' desire to physically participate gives them great joy in implementing the ideas of the more mentally active Aquarius.
Aries is a Cardinal Sign and Aquarius is a Fixed Sign. Aries gives Aquarius the confidence to charge ahead and take action, rather than just sitting in the laboratory concocting new ideas. Aquarius can help Aries stabilize and complete projects rather than jumping into new plans without completing the old ones. They both respect and admire each other, and when they can understand that no one has to be in charge, they can accomplish a lot together.
The best aspect of the Aries-Aquarius relationship is their ability to achieve a great deal when they work together. Cardinal Fire and Fixed Air cover all the bases: these partners can come up with an idea, plan how to implement it, get it going, and stick with it to make it succeed. This formula for success makes theirs a relationship of vision as well as practice.
(Heh, and Michelle always said she was so jealous of my artistic skills... this coming from a film major and incredible musician and artist, who went to Academy of Art college!)
Aries - Scorpio
Compatibility Reading (Me and Scott)
When Aries and Scorpio come together, it can be the kind of relationship where the two partners wonder how they ever managed apart. Both partners in this relationship love power, and if they learn to work together instead of against each other they can achieve anything they want. Scorpio is more focused and more determined than Aries, while Aries gets things started the way both partners want. Even though Aries can be fiercely loyal, Scorpio has a deeper and more complex devotion to the partnership.
This can be a very goal-oriented relationship. It tends to be highly passionate and often argumentative, because both partners have jealous tendencies. Scorpio tends to be more patient, but is also more possessive than Aries. But despite their differences, both partners love risk and taking chances; this is not a boring relationship! Aries and Scorpio can have lots of adventures together. At times they can have difficulty understanding each other, because Aries is an extrovert, up front and open, while Scorpio is more introverted with their feelings. Both partners need to meet on neutral ground once in a while and work out a truce!
Aries and Scorpio are both ruled by the Planet Mars, and Scorpio is also ruled by Pluto. When two people with Mars' energy come together, it's like two players meeting on a battlefield: they're either allies or deadly enemies. Mars also represents passion, so Aries and Scorpio tend to have an exciting time together. Both meet challenge head-on, so it's normal for them to argue all the time -- making up is something to look forward to! Pluto adds an extra intensity to this dynamic.
Aries is a Fire Sign and Scorpio is a Water Sign. These two elements can be a great combination if they work together, using emotion and physical action to get things done. Scorpio is a strategist, and can help Aries slow down and learn how to plan battles before jumping into them. Aries teaches Scorpio to let go and move on when their efforts are thwarted. But Scorpio can be emotionally manipulative, too much Water dampening Aries' enthusiasm. Conversely, too much Fire can burn the Water away and drive Scorpio to seek revenge. Aries and Scorpio must plan and work together instead of separately to maintain their balance.
Aries is a Cardinal Sign and Scorpio is a Fixed Sign. Aries gives Scorpio the initiative to do things just for the experience, rather than always having an agenda in mind. Scorpio can help Aries stabilize and finish things rather than jumping into new projects without completing the old ones. But they are both loyal and devoted to each other, and when they can understand that they can both be the boss -- Aries as the initiator and Scorpio as the emotional leader -- they can accomplish a great deal together.
The best aspect of the Aries-Scorpio relationship is the power of their combined forces. They can accomplish a lot, particularly when they believe in the same cause. They are both winners and they won't give up, making theirs a relationship that never settles for second best.
After everything I've ever said about my mom, dad, Michelle, or Scott, do you think these are at all accurate? I think everything has a grain of truth into it, and much like my tarot readings, it can be interpreted many different ways based on my own personal knowledge and experience.
Anyway, back to Dad's Day... I intended to treat Grandpa and Baba out to dinner at Olive Garden, but even after we got there (we knew there'd be a wait; Grandpa and I went to the mall. I had to pick up some more Proactiv and some soaps from Bath & Bodyworks. But apparently they'd paged Baba while she was waiting, and since we weren't there, we all had to wait an extra 10 minutes), they refused to let me pay! I mean, it was nice, considering I'd just dropped $82 at the mall for my own personal needs, but geez! It kind of ruins the point of father's day when the father pays for the food! :( Oh well, we all enjoyed ourselves- we literally stuffed ourselves with salad, bread sticks, pasta, and raspberry cheesecake. I had cheese ravioli and coke, Baba had unlimited Minestrone soup and salad, and Grandpa had apricot-braised chicken with seasonal veggies.
Back to the mall though-- bad experience with the guy at the kiosk cart. Long story short, he accused me (none-too-subtly, either) of cutting in line! Jerk. I came there knowing exactly what I wanted. I didn't have questions to ask, large bills that may have been counterfeit, or anything of the sort. He was such a twat, I wish I could report him somehow. But I settled for complaining on
no_tip_for_you.I've been rewatching Sailor Moon (Season 1) for alt.fan.sailor-moon (AFSM) and having a grand time learning all these things I never knew, and looking at the series in a new light. While SMR is my favorite season to write fic for, and SMS is my favorite season to watch, I've been getting plotbunnied by the same insane Usagi x Seiya idea I've had for a while, something I intended to write for
sm_monthly (even though I don't do well with deadlines for fic). The more of SM I watch, the more it pesters me, even if the season is totally wrong! So I'm looking forward to watching SMR and getting into it for real.Oh, and for the record, see my icon? Yeah, well, I've been commissioned (sort of) to do one like that with the Yu-Gi-Oh cast.
Sailor Moon - ???
Sailor Mercury - Rebecca
Sailor Mars - Mokuba
Sailor Jupiter - Shizuka
Sailor Venus - Mai
Chibiusa/Chibimoon - Yugi
Black Lady - Yami no Yuugi
Sailor Uranus - Jounouchi
Sailor Neptune - ???
Sailor Pluto - Isis
Sailor Saturn - Anzu
Tuxedo Mask - Seto
Anyone got any suggestions for pictures to manip, or rearrangements of this here cast? :D
